Tag Archives: relationships
Before You Submit, Understand the Risk
“All trust involves vulnerability and risk, and nothing would count as trust if there were no possibility of betrayal.” ~ Robert C. Solomon
It would take me all damn day to unpack the wealth of wisdom and revelation packed into...
At Last
Last Thursday I had a dream about my future husband. I literally know everything about how we will meet and details in our relationship. We have at least one mutual friend, which is how we met. Let’s get into it.
I was somewhere, at some...
Let Me Find Out
Everyone wears mask and costumes disguising who they really are. It’s one thing to have your guard up but it’s quite another to front like you’re someone you’re not.
So my question to the readers and lovers is this. Why lie? Why be...
We’re Done
A funny thing happened the other night.
I had lain down to sleep after having a really busy day at work and no sign of stress relief from the home front. It seemed as if I’d just dozed off real good when I felt a nudge waking me up. My...
Road to Separation
Everyone has a story. Recently my husband shared with a semi public group that he cheated on me. This confession came as a big surprise to me. Even though the weeks preceding his disclosure I had been telling him that I was indeed ready to...
Maneater
I have always taken a masculine stance to love and relationships. Don’t get it twisted, I am a womanly woman-lots of curves and softness-but my psychological aura, my life force, my perception is decidedly male in nature. The...
Exciting Times at Luv and Relationships
We have been quiet for a couple of weeks because we have been “cleaning house”.
As you probably already know, we released the FIRST EVER monthly digital magazine in the WORLD on Friday, November 25, 2011. Yes, Luv and Relationships...
Are Divorcees Damaged Goods
We have all met this person, or are related to this person, or have heard of this person… the (wo)man who has been married and divorced four times, can’t manage to stay in a marriage for more than three years, are ready to jump...
Breaking Up: Choosing Between Two People
Breaking up with someone is never easy. Well, let me take that back. In some instances, it’s the easiest decision to make, when it just involves you and one other person. In my case, though, it was a difficult decision, not only because...
My Choice to Break Up with a Married Man
I honestly have to say I never thought I would find myself in a situation like this. I have watched it on TV so many times screaming at the TV at women’s stupidity and how she can’t see that he is never going to leave his wife. Then...
A Vision of Love
I am a hopeless romantic. When President and First Lady Obama went to the White House, I was overjoyed. Obviously, for his historic accomplishment, but also for the fact that Black Love would be seen in a positive light. Finally, the world...
I Cheated Myself
As I watched the weekend marathon run of “Millionaire Matchmaker” (don’t judge me), Patti had me enthralled as she read a 44 year-old multi-millionaire concerning his short-lived romances. “You’re always looking...
One Stop Shopping: Being a Wal-Mart Woman
One of my favorite songs by one of my favorite artists is “I’m Cheatin” by Dwele. If you have never heard the song, basically it seems like a he is talking about cheating on his girlfriend. However, what Mr. Andwele Gardner...