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No One Ever Wants to Be Wrong
It has become apparent to me that many people cannot own up to their mistakes. In my mind, it’s just sad. I’m a very forgiving person and if someone did something wrong and apologized, then I accept their apology and move on. But...
Get Him to Do It Till You’re Satisfied
Disclaimer: This is not a sex column. I just liked that title.
Don’t you hate it when you ask dude to do something because you can’t do it yourself—then 3 weeks later you have to ask again? And 3 days later, you have to ask again? ...
His Heart Stopped; So Did Mine
We met December 18, 1996 at a company Christmas party. I had just been hired; he had been there since high school. I almost didn’t go; I’m so glad I changed my mind at the last minute. When I walked in, he was standing at the podium...
Rainbow Dreams
Every night as I’m making love to my man, I try to remain focused on our passionate love making. In the heat of our passion, my mind drifts to another place. My thoughts are with… her.
Imagining and wishing that she was between my thighs...
I Don’t Want Your MAN!!! And She Probably Doesn’t Either!!!
So, you see your man talking to a woman at the club or bar and your first reaction???
Is to go flipping crazy of course!
Okay, Ladies, calm your hormones a tad when you see a woman talking to your guy! Not every woman wants your guy!! Just because...
Under Control
My husband and I have very different parenting styles—and quite frankly, lifestyles. I believe in order; the world is chaotic enough on the outside without the chaos spilling over into my house. I fight the good fight of faith and black motherhood,...
Jealous Friends
The definition of a friend is a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection and loyalty. A friend is someone you go to for guidance and support and is there for you when you need a shoulder to cry on.
Everyone has that one...
When Is Guy/Girl Code Relevant
We have all heard about guy/girl code which is to not date or go after your friends previous girl/guy or even to talk to someone if your friend has shown interest. But is there a grey area for this?
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Almost Engaged
Recently I was out with friends enjoying their company, the conversation and the food. The conversation led to the topic of relationships. We were talking about the good and not so good of being married as well as the good and not so good of...
Communication
Couples list one of the major problems in their relationship as lack of communication.
Having this problem may open the door to for the individual feeling neglected to seek fulfillment elsewhere. Men as well as women in relationships may sometimes...
eDating
In today’s day and age communicating via the Internet seems to be the “in” thing. Where can you meet hundreds of people with a week’s period of time? You are exposed to so many different personalities, so many different types of people....
Expect the Unexpected
At the very beginning of my relationship I came into it with certain expectations. In my head, I told myself that I wasn’t going to allow him to do this and he better do that. Past that, since I am clearly the woman here he better do what...
Life’s Lesson
Last year, I sat in the dark… completely alone. I had not been so alone in almost 15 years. The word DIVORCE was still ringing in my ears and I was alone. You were gone and the bed we once shared looked so foreign. Suddenly, I considered...