Monthly Archives: February 2012
Mint Condition Medley
From the second I laid eyes on you, I thought you were “So Fine”… And I knew that from that moment on that I would make you mine…
I really wasn’t searching for “Someone To Love”, but it was plain to...
Girlfriend Breakup Survival Kit
One of my close girlfriends went through a breakup a couple of weeks ago. It was a rainy Saturday afternoon and I was at home trying to clear out the shows on my DVR when I got the call. She was crying and half hysterical. All I could understand...
Building Up the EGO
Now that I’ve shared a little bit with you about what a man wants (respect) and what a man feels (inadequate), I want to speak a little bit of time tell you what he needs: ego building.
I am the queen of making a man feel…manly. Call it...
What Is Your Deal Breaker?
So what is a deal breaker for you?
The way you eat?
The way you sleep?
Some people snore?
Some people talk loudly?
Some people gossip?
Some people annoy others with the way they spell?
And some people can not be faithful?
Are you are a gold...
When Love + Pain Can Equal Growth
What if you meet your soul mate and it doesn’t work out? What if he or she breaks it off and you are having a hard time getting over it? When love is over between two people, especially when it was full of passion and spark and excitement,...
Left Behind For Good
As a child, I often daydreamed about my father, about turning the tide of my life in such a way that made him love me and come back for me. I designed elaborate happy endings where this photo, that report card, those awards, these talents...
Defying the Odds
Some people say that when you meet an individual, you should date for a specified amount of time before even thinking of marriage. Well, I have to disagree. I am not saying that everyone should meet, date and get married in a month. However,...
How’s It Going To Be? You Can’t Have It Both Ways
In the age where women are just as powerful as men where do we draw the line of men using women and women using men? Is it still taboo to say that if a man is living off of a woman than he is less of a man? Or are we past that stage because...
I Know Who I Loved
What if you know you are in love with someone but the timing wasn’t right?
Timing is everything in relationships and when it isn’t right than the relationship will suffer. I know who I am in love with and have been for some time,...
Laws of Attraction: Mediation over Litigation
When people get married or have children, the last thing they hope for is conflict or divorce. However, in a society where divorce rates are 40-50%, and 41% of births are to unwed women, conflict is just a fact of life. One forum in which people...
My Funny Valentine
For the past couple of weeks I have been trying to determine my true feelings about Valentine’s Day. I am freshly in a relationship after a 11 year hiatus. This year I want to make it a memorable and romantic day that the both of us (my...
What Valentine’s Day Means to Me
As Valentine’s Day approaches once again, I think about what Valentine’s Day means to me. The meaning of Valentine’s Day has changed for me over the years. As I look back over my youth, I smile as I reminisce about Valentine’s Day...
Valentines’ Day: The Show Off Olympics
The end of the year clearance sales are over. The Christmas decorations which filled the seasonal areas of most stores are now in the clearance section and guess what dreaded merchandise has replaced it? Yep, it’s Valentine’s Day. ...